Real Life Matters

A blog about what is real in life, and what matters

We celebrated the marriage of Malin, to Sevrin, at the end of January. It was moving and breathtakingly beautiful. Jennifer and her father, Ralph, officiated the ceremony, surrounded by friends and family. I even got to play my trumpet! Everything was so green and fresh at Planterra. Going into the reception, I was a bit …

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By leaning into grief – saying yes and welcoming it into the daylight – I actually bring myself into closer alignment with the universe and my truest self.

I was born in the sixties in the town of Gladstone, Michigan. Gladstone is located in Michigan’s vast upper peninsula, about an hour and a half away by car from Spread Eagle, Wisconsin. I have only a few memories from Gladstone.[1]In 1971 my dad accepted a call to pastor a church in Cromwell, Connecticut. By …

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